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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have friends that have been trying to adopt for years with tens of thousands spent for the heartbreak of multiple failed matches. Adoption isn’t as easy as “just adopt.” And no, not everyone can or should adopt older, traumatized children in the foster system either. [/quote] So no one should attempt to adopt a child? Or you just want a child handed over with no process?[/quote] One should only attempt to adopt a child if they are financially and emotionally prepared for a long, expensive, uncertain process with no guarantee of success. Many, many people are out of emotional and financial resources after years of infertility. If they decide adoption is not the right next step for their family, then that decision should be respected. Some people just need certainty and closure, even if that means moving on from the dream of parenthood. [/quote]
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