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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Life is long, OP. She is in a tough season and it sounded tough on you too, but she's not a fully formed person yet! [/quote] This was not a helpful response, sorry. What I mean is, you need to get through today and today sounds really hard on you both. But take this acceptance about the future off your mind if you can. Things may be so, so different in 10 years or 20. Maybe not picture perfect, and maybe stepping away from a specific vision will help you, but do take comfort that these hard years are a gateway to something unknown and different. My kids are young but I saw this happen with my parents and brother. He's the same person, he just mellowed so much in his late 20s and stopped blaming them for everything and taking his insecurities out on his family (which started in his teens), and now they're on much better terms. [/quote]
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