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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Could be her trying to protect you from something like physical or sexual abuse. Or she could just be angry at them and wanted to prevent them from seeing you. Could be a lot of things. [/quote] This. My aunt had this same experience. She got really close with those relatives and over time she figured out exactly why her mom wanted nothing to do with them. It's really hard to know who the nut is. Your mom may have been hardened by things they did and may seem paranoid, but she may have been protecting you. It took a friend of mine a long time to come to terms with the fact her favorite uncle was grooming her and her sister and she was just the lucky one because he never got her alone. She would not believe her sister-the craxy one. Her sister was the crazy one because she endured years of sexual abuse from everyone's favorite, charming and hilarious uncle. [/quote]
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