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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Focus on just having a relationship with your twin and her family. Forget about inviting or including the others. Wait for them to invite you to things.

Part of you HAD to know once the patents were invited, that older sister would be coming along with them too.

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I honestly thought as my dad has voiced some understanding to my twin sister about why we weren't talking to her that they WOULDN'T do that since they wanted to see the kids.  I didn't even think my older sister wanted to come as she again, hadn't voiced ANY interest since I mentioned I was going.  I'm probably going to have it out with my parents. I am planning on focusing more on my relationship with my twin sister, nieces/nephews.  My nieces say I'm their favorite Aunt and I barely see them.  Why do they say that? Because I talk to them on the phone/video chat regularly and when together, I make it REALLY special for them because they are special.  My older sister bailed out and ditched them at the LAST minute in April....we were literally waiting to go to old town alexandria to have girl time and she bailed. I took the girls myself and treated them the a special lunch by myself (my twin sis had to run errands so we had prepared Auntie/niece time). [/quote]

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