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[quote=Anonymous]OP I so get it and could say the same about my mom. There are a lot of things she is giving away that I might want, but cannot take because it will give her permission to do her crazy dance and insult me. So I just let it go. It may seem like it's free because she is giving it away, but it isn't free because it gives permission to insult, nag, manipulate or whatever. When I calculate in the cost of what it would be to process it all in therapy and make peace, it is cheaper to save for those things I want and buy them myself. What is really sad is there is a photo of my late father I want and I cannot purchase that somewhere. It is not worth the mental torture to get a copy from her so i need to just enjoy my memories and let it go.[/quote]
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