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[quote=Anonymous]Volunteer for PTA or your local community association. Or anything that is important to you. The thing is, if you invite people over, you have to make the conversation. If you are part of a group who is planning something (fundraiser, event, membership drive, whatever), you automatically have something to talk about. I have made a lot of my best friends through PTA and not necessarily with people who have kids the same age or whose kids are friends with mine.

I've also found that initiating and just making a plan is half the battle. If you build it, they will come. I have found that very few people are planners but those who take the time to make a plan and facilitate getting people there will have more active social lives. In my group, that person is usually me and as much as that frustrates me, at least people will come if I ask. And it doesn't have to be fancy--a simple group text saying, "hey, was thinking of grabbing a coffee at xxx during practice if anyone wants to join me" will usually do the trick. [/quote]

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