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[quote=Anonymous]You and your husband need to write out a script and sit down with your sister and her boyfriend (at a calm time and not when you are angry and frazzled).

Something like:

Sis and Ben, our relationship with you is very important to us. We love you and want us to always be close. But us living together his not working. I’m pregnant and stressed and the added chores of having you here are not working for us. And living in a house where the chores aren’t taken care of isn’t an option either.

Since resolving those issues hasn’t been possible, we want to make sure that we are making good choices to ensure that we have good relationships going forward, and to do that, we need to get our home back. You originally said that you needed a place to stay until you found a place, and now that time has come. So let’s agree on a date for you to get your own place and move out.

Since it’s near the end of September, Nov 1st is a reasonable option so we need to commit to that date. Thanks for also investing in protecting our relationships as that’s really important to me.

Let us know how we can help. And let’s definitely plan on thanksgiving here!

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