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[quote=Anonymous]My sister and her boyfriend have been living with my husband and I for about 4-5 months and we are so fed up with their mess. I’m constantly picking up after them and I’m exhausted (I’m also 15 weeks pregnant). For example, when they are done using the kitchen, they leave the counters sticky with crumbs on them. She also leaves food in the sink and her rotten food in the refrigerator until I have to clean them out. Additionally, they don’t wash appliances after use (crockpot, air fryer, blender). What irks me a lot is that they fill the dishwasher to capacity and don’t start it, and they NEVER empty it.

As far as the bathroom goes, my husband and I are the only ones to clean it. They leave toothpaste and spit in the sink, and her boyfriend leaves his nicotine pouches in the shower. Also, my sister uses purple shampoo that stains my shower and she doesn’t rinse after use. They also use all of our towels and never wash them, so we had to buy more towels to keep in our room.

Since they have moved in, I have been so stressed and I have so many more chores to do. I have tried bringing my concerns to my sister, but she reacts very defensively, even aggressive at times. I would like to know if I’m being reasonable and how I can better communicate with her without compromising our relationship. I don’t want them to feel attacked, but I also feel taken advantage of. Any advice is appreciated.

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