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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Honestly, it sounds like you just don't want them there. That is a harder pill to swallow and i get that you dont want to say it directly. You night say you do want them there, just not for meals or overnight, but if they live far enough away that's not an option so it's irrelevant. They are not afternoon guests. If you're asking them to stay somewhere else so you don't have the burden of hosting specifically, and they're happy to stay with you, it is for your convenience over theirs so I think you should pay. [/quote] OP here. I actually generally like it when they stay with us. They're coming over Thanksgiving and I'm really looking forward to it. They come a fair amount of "regular" weekends and it's fun. However, when there's big stuff going on (graduation weekend, b-day day where we want to wake up and celebrate as a family of 3, more leisurely), I don't want to be expected to host since they are more "high maintenance" guests.[/quote]
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