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The earlier thread is titled "Great" guy and says:[i]My boyfriend of 9 months (age 40) is extremely kind and caring and always gives me sweet compliments, saying that I'm amazing and beautiful. The only thing is that he comments on other women's looks A LOT, unsolicited.[/i] Then that OP says everything else is "perfect" in the relationship. Which it is not, if this is the same OP as in that thread.

On the slim chance you're not also that same OP: Talk. To. Him. Say what you want rather than just gritting your teeth in a grin as you plan another outing. He doesn't value outings and dates for their own sake but was doing them to get you on the hook. Now that you are, he's fine staying home. Many couples, maybe most, cool off on the constant dating thing, which is fine and pretty normal, but you are not happy with it, so speak up. If you feel you cannot speak up or fear doing so will drive him away, then [i]you are not as close to him as you think you are[/i]. People who are actually in love and communicate like adults will be able to say what they want without fear of being called insecure, or being left, or being laughed at or brushed off. If you have those concerns, you and he are not a solid couple in the first place.

And...is he still ogling women and commenting about it wtih zero filter?....[/quote]

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