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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So what is it you’re looking for here? What do you want to see happen? [/quote]

OP here.[b] I guess I wanted to find out if this sort of thing happens in other families too.[/b]

[b]14 years after my father's death I still struggle with the loss of both my parents. 51 and 64 years old[/b]. Luckily for them, they were able to enjoy life to the full from when they married in the 1960s until my mother was diagnosed with cancer.

I just feel that relatives could have been a bit more understanding. I know that one or two did help my father for a while, but others did nothing, not even a friendly phone call to ask how he was doing They all knew I live 300 miles away. It was hard.

Actually the person who offered him practical support the most was a neighbor.[/quote]

Some families do. Some families don’t. What does it matter, really? Honestly, I think you’re looking for a way to blame them. My guess is that you feel guilty for not being there and can’t resolve that. As others have suggested, some therapy is in order. Peace to you. [/quote]

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