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[quote=Anonymous]My mother-in-law passed away last week after a brief illness. My father-in-law is reasonably healthy and will be living alone in their home, which is 9 hours away from us. In the past, they have come to us for Thanksgiving. We typically celebrate at home or travel alone (sometimes to see my family) over Christmas. We have plans to travel across the country this Christmas - have booked flights and a place to stay, and will be traveling with friends. This is our first family trip since 2019. Are we obligated to cancel our plans so we can be with my father-in-law during his first Christmas alone? I'm also happy to have him join us on our trip, although I'm not sure how feasible or fun it would be for him, as he has some mobility issues, would need to stay separately from us, and doesn't know the friends we're supposed to be traveling with. I'm also not sure he would want to join us, as he has a strong aversion to flying.

I'm interested to hear what others think is reasonable and appropriate in this situation.[/quote]

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