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[quote=Anonymous]I am also a single mom by choice who used a sperm donor and did IVF, so I feel like I have some street cred here. Your kids are 8 years old. This is no longer about your journey. It’s not about your dad. It’s THEIR last name. Full stop. If they have the idea — fully on their own — to change their names when they are adults, so be it. But you committed to this man and are raising kids with him. Even if you part ways with him now, the kids keep his last night. That ship has sailed. And get thee to a therapist. I don’t think you’re crazy but I do think you’re in turmoil. [/quote]
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