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[quote=Anonymous]you have to remember that a C-section is major surgery and not really "normal" in the sense of giving birth. It's really hard because again after you've had MAJOR surgery, there is the baby to be cared for and nursed, and if you have a toddler they want to climb all over you and be picked up etc bc their mommy-territory is suddenly threatened by the baby... It's truly exhausting. I'm unclear from you OP if they want to stay with you, so, if that's the case, I'd put my foot down and say no. Not anymore. Your family is too big now. Time for them to grow up and get a hotel. If the issue is them just coming to town and staying in a hotel, then I'm a little more unclear. They can do things without you; they don't need a tour guide and someone to pay for everything. OP, make your stand (your boundaries) now, because you have a great excuse. [/quote]
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