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[quote=Anonymous]Have you discussed this with him? DH and I talk about divorce all of the time. We have been together 20 years and don’t really like each other. There isn’t any of the three A reasons going on so we have hung on for years. We are having the discussion again right now if we think we should go our own ways. Basically we have stayed for the kids, who are now teens. It’s at the point we have separate bedrooms, do nothing socially, don’t even eat dinners together and haven’t had sex in many years. It’s not even really a platonic friendship, more like roommates who are annoyed by each other's habits. If we stay together, we likely will have completely separate lives when they go off to college. So do you want to be like us? I don’t recommend it. It’s not happy for us or the kids. Maybe you can come to an agreement and have an amicable divorce. Otherwise get couples therapy and try to have a happy marriage. [/quote]
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