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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you believe that your mother really has an attorney who prepared these documents or are you thinking she made it up?[/quote]

I think she does.  I think she has this idea that she's being all proactive in getting them together, and that one day when she gets to be the kind of old where they matter they'll be ready and she'll tell me the info.

Except, I think the fact that she can't remember the name of her attorney off hand, along with some other things, might be the sign that she's "that kind of old".  And that there is no point in having these documents if you don't tell someone.  Like if I've been assuming it's my brother, and he's been assuming it's me that's not good.

Plus, it breaks my heart that my brother who lives an hour away, has paid so little attention, that she didn't put his name on the form, and only put mine.  I live 7 hours away.  I've seen her for a total of less than 24 hours since the start of the pandemic, because we've had some really major issues.  But I'm the one she thinks she can count on?  [/quote]

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