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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's weird you've concluded you won't meet the kid until you say I do. I also think it's weird him setting a boundary has you leaping to he's leading a double life. It's normal and wise for a parent to not introduce a kid to a boyfriend or girlfriend until they have decided that the relationship is such that they could see it leading to marriage. It's especially wise in this case because it's likely his daughter has been enough trauma she doesn't need the drama of meeting every woman her dad dates. He can't have girlfriends coming over for sleepovers. This should read as good things for you. It's concerning that as a parent yourself you don't get that. It's concerning that you can't think of any other way to vet this man and his intentions other than meeting his kid right away. You just started dating. You need to slow all the way down. If also urge you not to make getting married again your goal this leafs to a lot of mistakes and bad second marriages. Instead your goal should be being open to marriage if the guy and situation are right. [/quote]
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