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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Join a running, hiking, outdoor sports, or traveling group.  My ex is 48 and still runs marathons usually finishing in the top 10 for his age group.   Lots of very attractive and fit people in his running group. My neighbor is 39 and is in a biking group, they wear those spandex outfits and let me tell you, those men are in shape!! [/quote]

Yeah, this. Follow your interests first. Athletics or travel or whatever. Your post goes far beyond just "how to hint sex drive in OLD." You will waste more time on OLD like you wasted time with your ex. Focus on your interests and finding people who share them, and you have a better shot at finding a man who is maybe about a bit more than just sex. If you'd be fine with nothing but no-strings sex, sure, go with OLD, but don't expect a real relationship. (The "I found my husband on OLD!" posters will chime in that it's great, but I seriously doubt they are as busy busy busy and frankly "extra" as you are, OP.) As for drive, well, if you ever have been on DCUM before you should know that apparently men have tons of drive already and women supposedly have none, so any man with a pulse on OLD supposedly will be up for matching your drive, no "hints" needed....If all you want is a bang.

If you want to have that late-40s baby with a man with whom you're in an actual relationsip as opposed to a sperm donor or casual friend who knocks you up--to be blunt, the idea is pretty naive of someone who is a world traveller and supposedly sophisticated, to think that either your body or a potential mate is going to be on board with a late-40s baby. You're making huge assumptions you'll be in perfect health and will stay in perfect health to chase a toddler at 52 or whatever, or to deal with high school drama in your 60s. if you're as much a go-getter in career and travel and hiking and and and, as you say you are, you are going to realize you are tied down in your 50s and 60s with a young child at the same time you are (yes, it will happen) aging. I don't think you're thinking straight on that front, but I also suspect you are not receptive to hearing that from anyone. [/quote]

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