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[quote=Anonymous]I am a divorced early 40s woman. My exH was 14 years older and I feel like I wasted the prime 18 years of my life on being with someone with a very different drive. He was very successful, rich and all but cold, full of himself and distant as a person. I was never satisfied sexually ( he wasn’t giving); I wanted to dance at jazz clubs, explore European cities, go rafting and hiking. All he would respond “I am busy” and our vacations and holidays were spend mostly us visiting his much older executive friends. Discussing business, properties, wines and politics. I loathe that.

I live my life very actively after divorce: do mountain climbing,  kayaking, rafting, work out every other day, travel internationally. I feel like my way of life requires a very active and driven person. I would love to share my interests with someone similar but I feel like it would be hard to fit a divorced man in my crazy lifestyle. He would have young kids and obligations.  Or it would be a 50+ man, too old to have same athletic abilities, energy etc. I am sending my only child to college in 2 years being almost an empty nester. We travel with my (very athletic) son and my elderly mother so it feels like almost a full family except I no longer have a husband. She’s 70 but can easily pull off a black diamond hike. It almost feels like I regained my own self and my life after years of being subjugated and doing what I was said to do as a “trophy” wife.

Ideally I would love to remarry, spend a few years discovering the world and then have another child in my late 40s. I have an insane amount of energy and still develop my career. I don’t feel like a “retired” lifestyle of an older man or a divorced man with young kids would be an option for me. I am also starved for sex and dream of someone with high libido for daily sex and giving in bed. The best time I had sexually is right after giving birth when I had huge breasts and it felt super sensual.

Am I crazy or is it all normal ? What would I put on my dating profile , shall I look for a younger never married man ? Do I have chances of meeting one ? I am very good looking and thin but I am concerned about attracting only those who look for sex and commitment phobic men. [/quote]

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