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I don't get the reasoning, OP: if your goal is for your DD to be sure medical training is for her, why does it matter how she gets her experience? Surely what matters is the actual experience. Maybe your connections aren't better than what she could find on her own, but she's asking, and she's young. Maybe you can help her (even by telling her that such and such attached to her school is actually more useful than the people you know).

On a separate note, I find it fascinating that you are adopting this approach of ground zero at every generation. Many families operate on the principle that future generations build on the success of past generations, and that's how you secure a better future for your descendants.

My husband is a research scientist. He clawed his way up to several terminal degrees (MD, PhD, several MS) from being a hungry war refugee. He sure as heck isn't going to let his kids suffer exactly what he went through! The entire point is to build on what other relatives have labored over and sacrificed for.
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