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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are my husband's parents.  He loves them, they love him.  How on earth could I possibly "hate" them when they are the reason that the man I love is alive?

Grow up, OP.[/quote]

OP didn’t say she hates her in-laws. She said she hates when they visit. And guess what? Different people can have different viewpoints and experiences. It doesn’t mean they need to “grow up.” Part of becoming mature is realizing this. If you don’t mind your in-laws visiting, that’s nice for you. Maybe OP’s are annoying in ways yours aren’t. [/quote]

[quote]They are my husband's parents.  He loves them, they love him.  How on earth could I possibly "hate" them when they are the reason that the man I love is alive?

Grow up, OP.[/quote]

I stand by my response.

Only petty, little, insecure people allow others to dictate how they feel.  If you are a mature adult, then you should be able to work around your own preferences to be hospitable and accepting of the people who love your loved one.  Why on earth are you willing to give power to people you "hate" to have in your home?  That's insane.

Grow up.[/quote]

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