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[quote=Anonymous]OP, he may be having blackouts, which are VERY common in heavy drinkers, especially as their addiction progresses. They may seem to be completely coherent and aware, but their brain is simply not filing away that short term memory information. Most of his memory will be patched together, and often by evidence the next day. In that, He may honestly not remember what occurred. So I’m not sure if that is part of the gaslighting you’re experiencing. It is NOT okay, but I want you to know that is part of the reality he is experiencing - he won’t remember, and to his narrative, it didn’t happen, so please save your breath fighting him about it. Go to AL-Anon or individual counselling, and seek out ways to set clear boundaries of yu choose to stay in the relationships, or develop relationships with people that have been there and can also help you out of it. [/quote]
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