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Reply to "So, how do you get a baby and a house?"
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[quote=Anonymous]If it doesn’t get measured it doesn’t get done. Find a house that you feel is acceptable and make a note of its price. Do some research and find out how much money you would need to put down and earn to live in the house. If there are any short falls between what you want and how much you make you then write down the steps you need to make to get what you want. Baby steps will get you everywhere you want to go but you’re not going anywhere until you write down exactly what you want. Say you want to buy a $300,000 house, you will need to put down $60,000 and be comfortable with a mortgage payment, taxes and insurance of around 2800 per month, would this be doable or does somebody need a higher paying job to pull this off? If you have $50,000 saved up you need to put away a certain amount every week or month until you reach your goal. Babies are much more difficult, some men are never ready for them but do quite well when they arrive – I was one of them. But if your husband is not moving forward with life for other reasons then that’s a much harder conversation. [/quote]
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