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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just keep in mind that foster situations almost always have reunification with some form of familiar biological family as the first, best goal. The child has gone through trauma, and the goal is to find the safest, healthiest familiar relative. Ideally parent, but if not that, then an aunts/uncles, grandparents, etc. If that's not an option, then foster to adopt becomes the next goal.[/quote] Kids don't want to be adopted, they want to be reunited with their family. There is not a whole lot of support for a mother when her kids are in care. She will even have to be able to provide each child with a bedroom before she can get them back. Even if the kids have shared a bedroom all their lives [/quote] There is support depending on the agency and social worker assigned. However the court system sucks and there are really good and really bad social workers and evaluations who can set up folks to fail. Kids don’t need their own rooms. [/quote] Foster care will not return the kids to parents until they meet that requirement It is really hard to get kids back from foster care. [/quote]
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