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[quote=Anonymous]Having a 3rd baby over 35 or even 40 is very different than having your first baby at 35/38/40. The pump is primed. If you are worried about having another miscarriage and not being able to get medical care due to the recent legal changed, an RE can’t help you predict that or prevent that. If you are worried you won’t get pregnant, stop worrying and start trying. If you are worried because you don’t know if you have 6 months or 6 years to have a 3rd, no RE can tell you that. If you are over 35 and can’t get pregnant after 6 months of unprotected sex, then go to an RE. They will take your money and run tests. If you are worried about your age because you want to avoid birth defects, I would pursue genetic testing early in your pregnancy. Doing IVF and having your embryo tested can’t rule out every potential issue, just specific inherited ones. If you are worried about conceiving a fetus with birth defects or issues and potentially want to terminate, I don’t think an RE can help you. I think you need to research local laws where you live and decide what risks you are willing to accept. [/quote]
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