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[quote=Anonymous]I have a super judgy friend. For a while she actually seemed to make more of an effort to be less judgmental, but now she’s turning again. I’ve had issues with her before. I have gone years without speaking to her. She’s badmouthing someone in our friend group to others. Someone who I’m very close to. Saying things about her weight and how she’s raising her kid and the choices they make, and how she’s basically given up on life. It pisses me off. I want to say something directly to her. Help me in this area because I really struggle with being direct. In the past I’ve just let the friendship fade out- it was kind of passive aggressive. The thing is she can be a super nice and helpful person. But other times she is so very judgmental and critical and negative. I’m not looking to end the friendship. Just be direct with her about her bad behavior.[/quote]
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