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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Start practicing non combative responses.

Where are dd's shirts - in the top drawer (do not get up and show)
What did the email say - 
I did not get around to reading it yet.

Tips - put his name 1st on the school / daycare contact forms.  School directory etc.   
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Catch 22 to making him the contact person- not sure I’m confident for him to read the emails/handle the calls etc[/quote]

You have to give him stuff you can let go off. My DH is 100 percent in charge of everything lawn related or outdoors. I just let it go if it looks bad because I have other priorities. Same for dental- they usually make you schedule the next appointment before you leave and if it’s 7 months instead of 6, whatever. My husband also does eye doctor; same thing there it’s routine and not super urgent. I handle all other medical stuff including mental health support one kid needs. I would definitely micromanage him on that because I get very stressed out about it. In general the more routine things are best to assign to the less organized parent.[/quote]

With all that said I do read/manage all the school emails. But I definitely resent it less when he has other things he is 100 percent responsible for [/quote]

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