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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Imagine how he'd feel if she fully and honestly told him her experiences with past BFs and how they compared to him. "Deeply hurt and rejected" doesn't even begin to describe it. "She found out" - what was she doing, snooping through his old emails and texts?[/quote] Remarkable how you leap immediately to blaming her for "snooping." And you also jump straight to whataboutism, turning around the scenario to focus on the man and how HE would feel, poor baby. Projecting much, PP? As for how she found out: She didn't say in the letter to Hax. But it's just as possible that he blurted it out to her during an argument. Or that some mutual friend who isn't much of a friend told her, claiming "you ought to know!" YEARS after the fact. Someone who likes to stir the sh*t and see what happens. Either of those scenarios is as valid as the idea of her snooping. But [i]you[/i] need to be [i]sure[/i] the woman's to blame somehow, right, PP?[/quote]
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