Toggle navigation
Toggle navigation
Home
DCUM Forums
Nanny Forums
Events
About DCUM
Advertising
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
FAQs and Guidelines
Privacy Policy
Your current identity is: Anonymous
Login
Preview
Subject:
Forum Index
»
Family Relationships
Reply to "Ill Narcissistic Mother..."
Subject:
Emoticons
More smilies
Text Color:
Default
Dark Red
Red
Orange
Brown
Yellow
Green
Olive
Cyan
Blue
Dark Blue
Violet
White
Black
Font:
Very Small
Small
Normal
Big
Giant
Close Marks
[quote=Anonymous]Sorry OP. They are really hard to handle. My MIL is like this and I was able to reduce contact however DH is pushed and pulled by her. Nothing is ever enough, a bottomless pit of need and she lashes out when upset. Dh, FIL and I are all sick and what does MIL say "What happens if I get sick". Yep all me, me, me. It's hard. I hope the therapist gives you some advice or an ear to vent however I would spend as much time as you can with your dad until he passes and then put some strict boundaries in place with your mom. Reduce some contact and stop communicating when she lashes out. If you are on the phone and she becomes unpleasant it's simply Ok well I have to go now, bye. At least don't react to anything she says. There really is nothing that will change her or make her stop. It's just finding ways for you to cope better for you. Sorry you have to deal with this.[/quote]
Options
Disable HTML in this message
Disable BB Code in this message
Disable smilies in this message
Review message
Search
Recent Topics
Hottest Topics
