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[quote=Anonymous]As a man I will say my wife does this and it irritates me as well. But I also know objectively she is doing nothing wrong. She is trying to be helpful and supportive and it's my perception of it. Sometimes I feel it's controlling or that it's criticizing me in some way and truthfully sometimes it is (controlling and critical) and sometimes it isn't. But what really irritates me is that I continue to express a dislike for it and she continues to do it. It's as if she ignores my wishes simply to assert her own. That is why I feel it's controlling and why it irritates me. But for the record, you are almost certainly doing nothing wrong. [/quote]
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