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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What if you are borderline?  Woman said domething to your kid, which "went over your head" so you "cut her off" and she tells you it's punishing.  Sheesh.

My MIL left about ranting screaming voice-mails and texts for a month, told him he is no longer her family, and wrote him out of her will because:  husband had to answer his boss's phone call.  That's borderline.  Overreacting to a nothingburger with anger - and possibly "cutting them off."[/quote]

No. She tried to go see my kid at sleep away camp without my permission and when I said please don’t do that she said she didn’t need my permission and had planned to do it without telling me. I asked again not to explaining why this was a bad idea and that my kid didn’t want this and she told me I didn’t know my own kid. I then told her that I was the mother and she would not be allowed to see my child without my permission and she became furious with me and went off on a tirade, hung up on me and was extremely nasty after that for a week…until it got worse and I
Had to temporarily cut off contact.

Sound normal?

I actually do worry I have these tendencies too. But I’ve been in therapy for years trying to deal with and heal.[/quote]

That does sound like BPD. At least, my BPD mother was like that.[/quote]

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