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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We have second home on MDs Eastern Shore which we have let my DHs sister’s family use when we know we won’t be there. We arrived yesterday and discovered her DH’s brother and his wife and 2 kids (unknown to us beyond meeting at their wedding 8 years ago/no relation to us) using our pool, pool house, outdoor kitchen, screened porch. It was obvious from their supplies they were set up to spend weekend plus there! We found out the BIL had told them he was sure we wouldn’t mind, told them key code, etc. Although they did pack up & leave it was super awkward with pauses where they obviously were waiting for us to tell them to stay.[b] My DH called his sister and her excuse for her DH was that he assumed we wouldn’t mind,[/b] assumed (for zero reason) we wouldn’t be using and anyway - hey he didn’t give them key code to house so obviously respectful of our privacy! WTF?!? We obviously changed key codes but DH so pissed he wants to disinvite his sister/BIL from our usual Labor Day shared weekend - which I understand but it punishes our kids as they love this tradition with their cousins.
This is mostly a vent but I’m just shocked they thought nbd…and trying not to wonder who else they’ve had stay there.
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Do not cancel the Labor day weekend.  Have your dh tell his sister that he is upset/angry that she didn't ask him/you for permission.  Then he has to make clear that she is to never do this again.  Then you don't give them the new password.  Just so you know your SIL was so wrong but going forth make sure everyone knows the "new" rules.  Just curious did she apologize?[/quote]

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