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[quote=Anonymous]I am go with the flow, in a way. DH is more routine-based.

A lot of it is that I’m a SHAM and so the way we live our lives is based on my flexibility. Another part of it is that I have difficulty setting a schedule and sticking to it. Yes I have ADHD.

But I’m not totally go with the flow. Our vacations, for instance, are a good balance of scheduled activities and down time. And I’m not flaky. When I make an appointment, I keep it. When DH needs me to do something by a certain time, like get dry cleaning, I do it.

Anyway, the bonuses are that I can switch gears at any time because I don’t operate on a schedule. The minuses are that DH has, in the past, been baffled as to how I operate and feels like he never knows what’s next, and I don’t like it that he tends to get to my time first because he is a better scheduler. I have had learn to be more firm about my time (like no, I can’t do this thing for you because I decided this morning that this would be my workout time).  [/quote]

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