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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm sure hints have been made about the ILs needing to leave (after 17 years!!!) and it was only due to scheduling a Major renovation, that anyone, including you Op took them seriously. Good for them![/quote] We see them once a year. My husband and his sister really don’t speak. If they wanted them out they should have done more than “made hints” because reading minds is hard. Or better yet they should have taken steps like putting my in-law on low income senior housing lists when they first moved in. But they didn’t want to do that. Instead they told my in laws “you’re moving with us and you can take care of our kids”. I estimate that they probably saved at least $400k in childcare over the years. Had they paid them as a live in nanny my in-laws could have bought their own place. You can think my SIL is right to kick them out but she did certainly benefit over the years by having them there. It wasn’t all give on her part. [/quote]
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