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[quote=Anonymous]So, I have dated divorced dads. I'm late forties and it's been my main dating pool for a while.

Most men get fifty fifty custody these days. Some remain duds and are looking to find a woman to marry to step in and cook, clean, drive carpool, etc. I avoid those like the plague. Many, however, step up to the plate and learn to cook and run their households and childcare just fine.

Meanwhile some of these guys when they were married they managed to push most of this work off on their wives, under the guise of being helpless or incompetent.

But you know what? most men can cook, clean, provide childcare, and run a household. THey totally can't. Many just don't IF there is a woman to do it for them. But they ARE capable of doing so, and if forced to do so by divorce, rise to the occasion.

The key if you are dating them is to resist the natural female impulse to step in and do his job.

I'm in a serious relationship with a divorced dad now. If his kids leave dishes in the sink, that is his problem, not mine. I don't clean them. If his kids need a ride to soccer practice, he needs to figure out how to get them there, not me.[/quote]

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