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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I somewhat judge people who didn't think through what having kids was going to look like. BUT, I know there are a lot of factors like special needs kids, job loss, illness, death, etc., that can throw even the best laid plans off. So I more judge situations where someone thought they'd be able to live the same life as before kids and are now SHOCKED that they can't eat dinner at a nice restaurant at 9 pm, for example. Also, I don't think anyone saw COVID coming, and that really blew up a lot of families in a way that I don't anyone can cast judgment on. We even had a full-time nanny and housekeeper and private school and our lives quite together and had everything turned upside down with COVID. So I can hardly cast aspersions on anyone less well set up who struggled or is still struggling. But if you didn't think about how you were going to have to be able to leave work at the same time every day in order to get to daycare before it closed? Yeah, I judge you for that. [/quote]

Do you know me… Because this entire paragraph is me. So go ahead and judge…nothing I can do now. Definitely didn’t think it through. Oh well…[/quote]

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