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[quote=Anonymous]that sounds annoying. My dad is like this (makes comments about what/how much others are eating). In his case, he does it because in actuality HE is insecure about his own body/eating/weight and he takes it out by being critical of others. Sometimes I ignore it, sometimes I say something like "this is what I like" if he makes a negative comment about the food I'm having, sometimes I actually say "please don't comment on what I'm eating" or "it's rude to comment on what other people are eating" (I said this when he made a comment like this in front of my kids because I didn't want my kids to learn from him and start doing this themselves so I made a point of actually saying it's rude to do that in front of my dad.) I think it would be best if you bring this up at a time when you're not eating instead of waiting until he makes a comment again. Just tell him, directly, "I don't like it when you comment on what I'm eating or how much I'm eating. I know that you have a lot of opinions about what I eat but I'm happy with my diet and my choices. Please stop making comments about what or how much I'm eating."[/quote]
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