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Reply to "If you come from a FUNCTIONAL family, why resent/dislike people from dysfunctional families?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It doesn't sound like people are resenting or dil disliking others [i]for[/i] having dysfunctional families. It sounds like you're talking about impatience with people's actual individual behaviors outside of the contexts of their families of origin. It's asking a lot for everyone a person comes into contact with to have a deep understanding of how an individual's childhood traumas have shaped their adult behavior, and not being annoyed if they're overly needy or blow up over nothing or whatever the "unsatisfied need" drove them to do. Compassion is important, but learning to deal with your own baggage and behave in healthier ways is too. [/quote]
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