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[quote=Anonymous]Because everyone has limited bandwidth, and usually people are looking to spend their time with people who are easy and pleasant. If someone is in your life for a reason - they're a longtime friend, they're an in-law, you work together, you share a hobby, etc - then you may have more capacity to deal with their quirks and difficulties. But I think day to day, even people with easy lives or easy upbringings just don't have the space to manage people who are difficult for whatever reason. At least not long term. Also if you grew up in a functional family, and have continued to live a pretty functional life, you may just not understand why the other person is behaving the way they do. So you may just write them off. Someone who's been through what you've been through would have a better understanding and perhaps more tolerance. I'm sorry you're going through this.[/quote]
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