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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]They are early 20's, engaged but not marrying for at least 5 years. All seems good, no red flags but very clear that one person is compromising a lot more to be with the other.[/quote] And that's their choice. Relationships aren't always 50/50: sometimes its 20/80 and sometimes its 60/40 and this varies over time and circumstances. Instead of wanting them to live up to your relationship expectations, why not offer to help if your child says they are overwhelmed?[/quote] No help is needed. Child isn't feeling overwhelmed. Its more like she'll drop everything if he needs help but he is often busy when she does. She'll clear up schedule to visit his family but he won't for hers. They'll move wherever he wants to go to grad school or work but she'll just transfer or find something there.[/quote]
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