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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to dump this man. Seriously. Huge red flags

Generally speaking it's when you're both comfortable. I think low pressure events are best no holiday dinners as first intros just too stressful.

Unless you have a history of dating inappropriate people or demanding your nieces and nephews call your boyfriends uncle your siblings need to STFU.

I don't believe in introducing minor children ( meaning your son or daughter) until you both know each other well enough to get a good read on each other and feel the relationship is headed towards marriage which generally doesn't happen at 3 months.

That your boyfriend is giving you several ultimatums is concerning
 It's also concerning that he doesn't understand how complicated things can be for a child meeting their parents SO.

I get the vibe you're a people pleaser making you a target for loons.

Draw your boundaries op especially when it comes to your kid and hold firm.
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When you and otter's say red flags, what do you think they are red flags FOR? I haven't ever really been with someone like him, and if there is another shoe towrope I don't know what it is/could be. Like if someone had a really bad temper outburst or punched the wall it might a red flag for future violence, but I don't know what this is a potential warning for?[/quote]

He's using ultimatums and emotional connection for control. He is being manipulative NOW. How manipulative do you think he'll be when he has more levarage over you, when he buried himself into the emotional lives of your children and rest of the family?

Run OP, we are begging you.[/quote]

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