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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How long have you been dating? Ultimatums are not a good sign generally; has he met your friends? Has your including him in your life more fully been discussed? Just saying that about Thanksgiving seems a bit out of the blue. I agree that meeting family and especially kids should be put off until you're very serious with someone. I wouldn't have my kids meet any boyfriends until we decided we wanted to be married or move in. They don't need any more drama in life.[/quote] We have only been dating for 3-4 months but he is also asking to meet my kid. His logic is that is the interaction does not work out on either side then the relationship won't either, and it' better to know that sooner. [/quote] You haven't been dating long enough for him to give you an ultimatum like this. Also, he doesn't get to determine how or when you introduce someone to your kid. His ultimatum and this push are serious red flags. [/quote]
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