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[quote=Anonymous]And if so where's the line? I'm curious about this whole relationship thing in this regard. Do I tell DS that I took out the trash, moped the floor, changed the sheets? It seems like whenever I do these give her notice that I'm going to do anything except the most basic thing like taking out the trash, I get pushback like don't do that now. So I'm at a stalemate. Then sometimes I just feel like eff it, I'll apologize later if I shouldn't do this. So I'll do something like organize the garage or the kids playroom and feel good about it and sometimes it's nothing and sometimes it's a you should let me hire somebody to do that. I admit that I do make a few mistakes (if I do 4 projects, I may need up 1 of them, and if I do 10 I may mess up 1 significantly, not to the point of anybody being hurt but where is just as expensive as if we had hired as handyman). But is there like an organization chart of which of these courses I should just be able to do without question and which ones I need approval before attempting? I just had a great day doing yard work and the whole time I was like I hope this doesn't start an argument but it's worth it. [/quote]
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