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[quote=Anonymous]If I were you, I would call a halt to sex in total until he addresses his substance use disorder. Sexual dysfunction aside, he isn’t supposed to be drinking at all on an SSRI, or at most, only rarely. Regular use of alcohol despite medical advice - and the AMA recommends minimal alcohol consumption for men and women both because of the many negative effects on the body nevermind of the patient is also on SSRI - indicates a use disorder, an unhealthy dependency.

If your husband is on SSRI for depression or anxiety, he should look into TMS therapy as an alternative. It’s more expensive than pills but has zero side effects and works well for most patients. I had a course this winter and am no longer clinically depressed and am enjoying the zero side effects - SSRIs caused so many side effects in me that didn’t go away over time so I qualified to have TMS covered by my insurance. Yours might cover some of the cost, but if sexual release is that important to your husband he should consider making the investment even if he has to pay some significant portion of the cost.

My overarching point being the problems here go well beyond hubby’s inability to orgasm. He needs to do some serious work on himself and you can offer to support him in that but refuse to be his on demand hole and the object of his ire for something that isn’t your fault at all.[/quote]

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