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[quote=Anonymous]There's a class at my gym that I LOVE. Due to changes in my work schedule, I have not been able to go for some time. I now have a break and can go on this day/time regularly. Like most people, I have a preferred spot, and I like it for various reasons. But I wholly understand that it is not "my" spot and I do not own it. If someone else is there before I get there? Totally cool, I go somewhere else and give them space.

But for the most part, I try to arrive to this class early. Like a lot of people, I put my water bottle and towel down in my (empty) spot and make small talk with others. I do not wander far, maybe 2-4 feet away.

The past several times, an older woman comes in and stands like a statue about 4" from my water bottle. At first, I moved and let her have it.

But now, I'm tired of this. And I don't wander away. I've been a pushover and people pleaser for most of my life, but lately I've grown so tired of accommodating others, especially if I feel they're rude. And I reclaim my spot even if she walks in and stands right next to me.

Am I the ahole? Am I wrong? Am I being too strict with 'first come first serve?'
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