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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have two teens, one is neurotypical (NT)  and one has ADHD and anxiety (both boys, three years apart).  They have not gotten along very well since they were small because the ADHD child would always hit his sibling.  We have told the NT child repeatedly to try to understand what’s happening with the ADHD child. There was a time when NT child tried to bond with his brother and help him socially in school, but ADHD child didn’t see what his brother was doing as help and lashed out.  As a result, NT child backed off and the relationship was distant again. 
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What I’m seeing now is NT child regularly admonishing his ADHD brother for behavior that is classic ADHD, such as forgetfulness, dallying, odd social manners, etc[/b]. It’s gotten so bad that ADHD child no longer wants to spend any time at all with is brother, and I don’t really blame him. DH and I have repeatedly spoken with NT child about backing off and even stopping contact, but it’s hard when we’re all under the same roof. I want to continue working on their relationship because I don’t want them to grow into adults who hate each other. Any suggestions?[/quote]

Having ADHD is an explanation, not an excuse.  It doesn't mean he cat behave badly or obnoxiously without consequences, it means he has to work harder.

Maybe they will grow closer when they're older.  Maybe they won't.[/quote]

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