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[quote=Anonymous]My younger cousin and her boyfriend had an unexpected pregnancy and the baby is now 17 months old.

When she became pregnant my husband and I who are 20 years older and established and who have been trying unsuccessfully for a child for years offered to adopt the baby. She had no intention of being a mom at the time wanted to finish her master's program and travel. Instead they planned to get married. Wedding and engagement were called off.
They are now constantly bickering and not communicating

Meanwhile the baby is sick not getting the care she needs because mom and dad refuse to follow doctors advice  on medicine and follow ups with specialists etc.meanwhile the baby has been hospitalized for pneumonia multiple times. They didn't bother to tell daycare she has asthma. She spends most of the time with grandma while her parents travel and hang out with friends.  But they are sure to be available for zoo trip and other cutie photo ops.

I know we're not entitled to the baby. It just makes me angry that they're not taking care of her seriously and they had the opportunity to opt out of being parents.

Believe me I know how complicated it is I work with high risk mom's and babies,,,

I'm just mad at the updates from family. My aunt and other family members making excuses for them. They're mid twenties not teen parents.

Just frustrating and I'm frustrated [/quote]

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