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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, take a deep breath. While it is most likely the case that she unintentionally left the door open, and that's pretty bad, it's not the only possible explanation. And if she truly doesn't think she left it open, why would she apologize? I would definitely apologize if I thought I even might have left it open, but if I truly thought I didn't, I would not apologize.

It IS possible that there was a break-in, and I wouldn't be so sure that didn't happen. You were gone for longer than the days she stayed there, yes? Break-ins do sometimes happen when people go on vacation.

Bottom line: if she asks to stay in your house again, just tell DH no.

You sound like "extreme drama" yourself, by the way. [/quote]

Op here. 100% agree she won’t be staying here again. If there was a break in, everything valuable is still here and there’s no evidence of anything being messed with. Laptops other electronics all in place and nothing looks off- except for the one open bedroom door.

I would without question apologize if there were even a 1% chance I were responsible. I find the total silence non acknowledgment crazy rude. I heard her on phone when he called- she didn’t even ask if everything looked ok. Just a “ I don’t recall leaving it unlocked/open.”  [/quote]

Well, OK. You are resolved that she won't stay there again, which is fine. And she won't apologize, which you can't control. What now? You want to get your blood pressure higher, or do you want to take a walk and enjoy the beautiful day? Stuff happens. You don't always get the response you want from people. Life goes on.[/quote]

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