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[quote=Anonymous]Very frustrated by this.
SIL asked if she could stay at our house for a few days while we were gone on vacation. 
I wasn’t thrilled about it (for variety of reasons) but told dh to tell her fine
SIL and I used to be close years ago, but no longer are. Family drama etc. i am civil to her but we do not have a relationship anymore beyond pleasantries 
We arrived home from vacation and our front door was freaking wide open.
Not unlocked. OPEN. 
I screamed as we walked up, thinking someone had broken in, etc. 
DH walked thru the house said no one inside nothing appeared stolen or broken.
No windows broken or open in house. 
Interestingly, a bedroom that i pulled the door closed before we left was wide open. 
I said to him- did your freaking sister not lock and close the door??!!
There was an entire week that elapsed between when she left our home and when we arrived. 
Dh immediately got defensive of his sister “I’m sure she didn’t mean to. Don’t harp on this it’s a nonisssue.” He called her- her reply “I don’t recall leaving the door unlocked or open.”
And that was that.
Not a word from her. Not a thanks, not a “sorry about the door.” Nothing.
Besides being frustrated as hell about the actual door and my husbands lack of response, I’m floored at SIL. 
Reallly? Not even a one line text to apologize? A part of me wants to call her out on it, but unfortunately I know that will lead to extreme drama with DH.[/quote]

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