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Reply to "Tricky situation- new boyfriend's ex is sick"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t see what the first option accomplishes, because it’s basically saying that your not in this relationship for the rough times and aren’t interested in being there for him. If you think the relationship has long term potential, the only option here is to stick by him and support him through this. If you don’t think this relationship has long-term potential, it’s better for both of you to just make a clean break. [/quote] op: I do think it has long-term potential. He has said before that he never wants to let anyone down, and get stretched thin sometimes, so I just don't want to put any pressure on him to nurture our newish relationship. Currently, we go out 2-3x/week to dinner, clubs, etc. [/quote] Stop....putting yourself in this position where you dont deserve his attention, too. Are you suggesting you break up so you can date other people while he focus on his ex? Are you suggesting he goes off and takes care of his ex but gets to ignore you while you DONT date other people? If you want a long term relationship with this guy, neither sounds like a good option.[/quote]
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